Many don’t understand the meaning of grace and what it means to be gracious. Yet countless numbers of my sisters have lived their lives expressing that undefined grace with their masculine selves. You see, grace is more than just being poised and elegant. It’s more than...
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Looking in the mirror – my road to facial feminization surgery

I had equivocated for months now. I knew how harsh a trial it would be, but still. I knew that my reflection was passably beautiful, but still. I heard others express shock at my decision, lending support to what I saw, but still. When I looked in the mirror I saw every line that...
I guess some people are built to feel things more poignantly – the knife of heartache cuts deeper, the rushing streams of passion run stronger. The highs and lows of life are adorned with vivid sensory accompaniment. Truth be told, I’ve always been an emotional pers...
Shame. It’s the ephemeral spirit that haunts the transgender experience from the first moment our minds consider the path. “It’s wrong,” thinks the four year old trying on his mother’s clothes for the first time, “I had better not tell anyone.&...
Our heroine has struggled for years. Fighting through the thick fog of self-doubt and apprehension, battling demons of the soul that rise up to block her divine path and steeling herself while those she once loved flee her presence. Her body is battered and bruised. Skillfully cu...
Monday March 26th marks a seminal day in my gender journey. For a brief moment the meaning of it overcomes my nerves as I’m wheeled into the operating theater. As the anesthetic begins to take hold I ponder briefly the pain and heart ache it has taken to get this far. The e...
I’ve just completed my third surgery to correct a physical situation I was born with. I sit with an icepack between my legs and a nightstand full of various pills. There are pain pills and antibiotics, pills to counteract the ill effects of anesthisia and pills to counter the i...
Step Softly, Walk Carefully – The Path Here Is Narrow and Untrodden

This is my final post in the series ‘Am I Transsexual’ – it marks the point where I went from questioning and exploring to beginning my journey in earnest. In all likelihood I’m still recovering from SRS, and won’t feel like doing much besides restin...
Dear readers, Well before my surgery I scheduled a series of posts entitled ‘Am I Transsexual’ – as a way to transfer articles I originally posted on Crossdresser Heaven to a more appropriate place, and to share my journey with new readers. As you read the below...
If all has proceeded as planned I will be on my way to Arizona for gender reassignment surgery in a few days. Your thoughts and prayers would be a most welcome blessing to me at this time. No doubt it will be a while before I’ll be able to check any electronic communication...
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