I'm big myself, about 6'2" and overweight. I lost thirty pounds the first three months after realizing I might be transgender, but... Christmas put a damper on my dieting plans.
I've been relying on hand me downs from my wife and Walmart clearance, though I love the pants from Torrid where my wife shops for plus size clothes. One of the first people I openly came out to was a clerk there and she was so awesome about it. Then again that's my store and I can't vouch for their other locations and I have my wife to go shopping with.
I do appreciate the other answers you've gotten though, as I can't wait until I can afford to go shopping for a fuller and nicer wardrobe. Especially shoes, I really want something cute to wear on my feet and they are two sizes bigger than Walmart's max.
On a side note, my size and shape have really been getting to me the past couple of days. I've really got to start exercising again or something.
“Passing” typically means “looking cis”, plenty of gorgeous, sexy trans women (like me) have no desire to look cis and are even offended by the whole notion of “passing” as it evokes “passing privilege”
There is no reason for any woman to be treated any differently based upon her looks nor dress size.
I get that you want to look good. Looking good makes one feel sexy and confident. But girl, please, there is plenty of plus sized clothing that looks good on bigger girls. Have you looked at the AVERAGE cis woman lately? I see so many who barely “pass” themselves.
So stop worrying about “passing” and just be your best sexy, confident self. If you’re living your truth you don’t have anything to prove to anyone else. Just be you.
Thank you for the advice. I am going to be one sexy, confident bitch! Lol
You are most welcome sis! Just kick ass and don’t bother to slow down to take names! Be yourself and that will be enough. Love ❤️ and 🤗
Danielle đź’‹đź‘