I am 5' 11" and work with a couple of genetic girls who are much taller than me. They tend to wear jeans and ballet flats or skate shoes, something I have copied, but I wear longer loose tops to ensure certain areas are hidden.
How big, if i may ask, are your feet? I'm6'4" male 12/13 female 14. Yes being tall you will stand out..
Height you are pretty much stuck with. But as already said not the issue that you think it would be I'm 6ft my sisters are 6'2 and 6'3. Never caused them an issue and my equally tall cousin was Polly Pecks Tights model for a while. Several of my female friends are 5'9" and up, they often wear heels again not a problem.
Broad shoulders can be a problem but, if you sweat a bit and do some exercise a big improvement is possible.It's all about misdirection and targeting.
Broad shoulders can be reduced by reducing muscle mass at the top of the arm and shoulder. If you develop your pecs more that will draw the eye to your boob area. This is enhanced by targeting muscles to flatten the stomach and narrow your waist.
The last used with exercises to develop the hip and ass will bulk out your hips. With a narrower waist and flatter tummy the waist size reduces, reducing arm and shoulder mass with pec work enlarges the boob area minimizing the broad shoulders. Watch
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to see what can be achieved. It's stunning.
<p style="text-align: left;">Not going to add a lot, nothing to say that hasn't already. I am 5'11 and I have a genetic female cousin that is 6'3 or 6'4, with a broader build than me. If she can own who she is, then being a woman is still being a woman regardless of CIS vs Trans.</p>
But I still get the point about wanting to wear cute heels.
Stephanie.
I have contemplated this too. I'm 6ft 4, with size 12 feet. My shoulders are not too much of an issue as I'm slim built, but are probably broader than a female of my build.
6'8" Never gonna pass, dress in private or out to local Trans group meeting, nothing else.
Clothing and feminine stuff are affectations of what we think femininity portends.
Be you as you're able, screw the world and those that don't matter.
Regarding passing, keep this in mind:
Those who matter don’t care and those who care, don’t matter