Just looking for advise,or the same situation-Did any one of you was dumped after years of relationship, because of your gender?!how did you get on after all that
Divorced counts as dumped, in probably its harshest form. Yes, I was dumped. My wife had, to her credit, tried to accommodate the changes I was putting us both through. I wanted her to embrace and enjoy the girl side of me. She could not. I don’t blame her (at least not very much) for not being able to accept this part of me, and I understand how drastically different she viewed me as a male.
How did I get on after that? Not well. I tried to shed this part of myself. I worked hard at convincing myself that it was basically a compulsive behavior that I could rid myself of in time. Then, call it back sliding or simply acknowledging reality, I found myself back to where I am now, a part-timer, dressing when circumstances permit and hiding it from most family and friends.
