Today is my 13th anniversary of my first date with my wife. For a surprise, my wife bought a bunch of stuff on Amazon that arrived in time for our anniversary. Tonight she tried on a pair of sexy platform shoes. I thought they were very pretty and told her they were cute and I said “I hate you.” I really didn’t mean it literally but I was a little jealous as I am 6+ft tall so platforms would make me dwarf miniature skyscrapers. I typically don’t use this language with her and she was very upset by this. I’m not sure why I thought to say this to her. She was angry for three reasons. 1. She went through the trouble to have a romantic anniversary and I didn’t appreciate it. 2. I said “I hate you” to her on our special day. 3. I noticed the shoes and took interest in them but didn’t notice her or comment on her. I feel awful. I don’t know if it’s because I’m sick or stress or what. She thinks it is because I’m gay, which I told her I have attraction to men but assured her I am attracted to her and will be faithful to her.
That's tough Brea and her reaction is completely understandable. You have a lot of making up to do. I feel for ya both hun.