Notifications
Clear all

HYPOTHETICAL: Would you trade your sex identity with a cis?

92 Posts
70 Users
1 Reactions
3,631 Views
Posts: 1
Member
Topic starter
(@zipsy)
New Member     United States of America, Alabama
Joined: 5 years ago

This is just an interesting hypothetical. Trans people don't deserve to have the wrong body anymore than cis people do. It's hard to give someone else a plight that they didn't ask for, but at the same time you didn't deserve being born in the wrong body. You could have the ideal body you feel you should have been born with. Maybe you can't justify it morally, but it's still a tempting offer. Do you do it?

Reply
91 Replies
Posts: 164
Member
(@cd-danielle)
Estimable Member     United States of America, Ohio, Mansfield
Joined: 6 years ago

Given the right circumstances I would in a heartbeat πŸ’—! Those circumstances would be never meeting my wifeβ€οΈπŸ’•πŸ’•!

Danielle πŸ’‹πŸ‘ πŸ‘—

Reply
Posts: 98
(@qtystephanie)
Estimable Member     United States of America, Massachusetts, Boston
Joined: 5 years ago

I would never impose the agony, pain and a life of confusion on any one. No one deserves it.Β  Luv Stephanie

Reply
Posts: 164
Member
(@cd-danielle)
Estimable Member     United States of America, Ohio, Mansfield
Joined: 6 years ago

I Know this choice is selfish of me. But how do we know that the CIS female isn’t in reality a transgender male? As an addendum to my answer I would swap with a transgender male. While I know that is not the question, the reality of my answer under the influence of sleeping medications is not humane. So I would search out a transgender male and come to an agreement. I am sure he wants this as badly as I do.

Danielle πŸ’‹πŸ‘ πŸ‘—

Reply
Posts: 718
(@cloe-anne-webb)
Honorable Member     United States of America, Virginia, Fairfax
Joined: 6 years ago

Assuming this CIS person was enlightened and willing to take on life changing adventures I would have said yes in the past.Β  Desperately I would have.
But an emphatic NO is my answer.
Now that I'm living full time as my true self and going through my own adventure and some serious trials one might think even more so a yes answer would be better.Β  Maybe I've picked up that need for the challenge of a lifetime to go along with the simple/complex overwhelming need to be me.Β  Like many who have undertaken harrowing challenges like climbing Mt Everest, there are those who encourage me.Β  Yet there are many more who look at me with the eye of "go ahead, I'm not participating in this train wreck" and simply walk away for myriad reasons.Β  There are even the few who aggressively insist I live life their way - no more.
Living life on my terms with free will, no longer caged by fear, yet still having so much to learn about myself.

Reply
Posts: 197
(@Anonymous 2388)
Estimable Member
Joined: 6 years ago

Hello, not sure if I read the question correctly so I reread it a few times. If you mean would I change places with a cis person be it male or female, and they would assume my transgender gender. Β The answer is a flat no. Β I would not wish it on my enemy and certainly not an innocent or loved one.πŸ˜”

 

If you mean by the question that I could magically be a cis male or female from birth and no one else gets harmed. Then absolutely sign me up. Β But at present I would prefer female, please. πŸ˜‰

However the question does not actually ask about gender it seems to ask about sex. Β Almost as if it was the asker was trading sex for ??? Sex? Β I do this with my spouse but not anyone else. And trading sexual preferences I would not as it really does not bother me. Β However I am sure I am just being an word lawyer so refer to my other two answers. Β πŸ˜‰

 

Miriya

πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜œ

Reply
Posts: 32
Member
(@constanze)
Eminent Member     United Kingdom, Alabama, Chiang Mai
Joined: 6 years ago

I desperately want to be a woman but trading places would not be the way for me. I do recall as a 7 year old wishing I could wake up as a girl. Conversely I do enjoy being me so if the opportunity arises I would have the op. For now I will continue with the hormones and dream.

Reply
Posts: 32
Member
(@constanze)
Eminent Member     United Kingdom, Alabama, Chiang Mai
Joined: 6 years ago

You have voiced my own feelings Cloe. My situation at the moment is difficult apart from the transitioning (which strangely enough motivates me) so that a few years ago I would have collapsed in a heap, but now I feel determined and confident enough to battle it out.

Reply
Page 1 / 12

Β©2024 Transgender Heaven | Privacy | Terms of Service | Contact Vanessa

Login to Transgender Heaven

Log in with your credentials

Forgot your details?