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(@mistressb)
Estimable Member     Australia, Queensland, Brisbane
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As I travel down my path of transistion I am constantly surprised by the number of new transgender folk that I come across. Whilst I can appreciate that we are living in different times with greater acceptance the largest growth area has always been reported to be the younger generation. And whilst this may be true there does appear to be a large number of, lets say over forty folk that have either decieded that now is the right time to come out or question their gender. I am concerned however that the current available resources ie Gender therapists, psychologists, endocrinologists, clinics, etc are not able to cope with the current and ever increasing demand. Figures I have seen show huge increases over the last five years in the number of transgender individuals seeking support services.
Until sufficient services are available to address all age brackets, and lets face it we have differing needs I encourage you all to support your fellow travelers with kindness and understanding. You may not agree with their choices or opinions but it is extremely important to be there when they need a shoulder and a kind word.
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Estimable Member     United States of America, California, Los Angeles
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@mistressb Ha ha...AMEN!!!

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(@firefly)
Reputable Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 3 years ago

That's right, Mistress B. In my personal experience having someone to talk to really helps. In the end, everyone makes their own decisions about the path they follow and how they want to follow it, but it's wonderful to have friends on hand. It is important to feel valued.

Gisela

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(@judith)
Estimable Member     United States of America, California, Los Angeles
Joined: 3 years ago

Mistress B: I hear you about "differing needs." I guess I might say that ...for anyone in the Los Angeles (USA) area, that I've found the L.A. LBGT Center to be ENORMOUSLY helpful...in terms of such things as easy access to an endocrinologist (and HRT), counseling (even through some "crises"), required referral letters...and--eventually--surgery. I'm still "waiting with baited breath" for my facial work, but my BA went splendidly...and I feel MUCH better about myself as a (gradually) "transitioning" female

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(@mistressb)
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Estimable Member     Australia, Queensland, Brisbane
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@judith Good for you love. Our journeys can certainly have there ups and downs.

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(@alexispw)
Reputable Member     Canada, Alberta, Edmonton
Joined: 3 years ago

Try doing this 20 -30 years ago , there wasn't much in line with support of any kind . We were totally on our own , nothing like it is today . 

 

Alexis 

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Estimable Member     Australia, Queensland, Brisbane
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@alexispw I knew without a spread of doubt at 12 yet I also knew of the inherent risks of coming out at that time. Not only from the outside world but also from my family who had made it quite clear what they thought about people like me. I sometimes wonder what my life would have been like if I had come out then.

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(@tsu)
Active Member     United Kingdom, Derbyshire
Joined: 7 months ago

This is exactly the situation I find myself in right now. I’m doing hrt diy - buying my own meds & getting private blood tests to keep my levels in check. The waiting list in my area is over 2 years & that’s just to talk to someone about getting on a program 

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