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ME! Therapy update

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Estimable Member     United States of America, Illinois, near Chicago
Joined: 3 years ago

Well yes, I did it. I scheduled then followed through and kept my first therapy appointment. No I didn't get cold feet, call and cancel. May I say that it was such a very positive experience. I am delighted.

As I reflect on it I see it as so important because perhaps for the first time in my life I was not discussing my "problem" i.e. being a man who is struggling against incessant desires to be a woman which I know are "bad" and of which I hope to control or eradicate etc.

No, after the initial hesitancy I was Charlene (aka Charrie) discussing how move forward as my authentic female self while respecting and honoring the rights and needs of others I love to be the male me (the man) they need me to be. But unlike other times I have talked with counselors, last evening I was contemplating and discussing my feminine future rather than my masculine self suppressing my female self.
I believe it is safe to say that in the moment I was, as much as possible, being Charrie who was discussing her future.
Does that make sense?
In a way different from what I have ever sensed before I found I really like being me, Charrie, a trans woman on her journey.
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Estimable Member     United States of America, Florida, Tampa
Joined: 1 year ago

I’m so happy for you  I had a great session with my therapist today  we all have to learn to love and accept ourselves for who we truly are  I wish you great success and progress as you continue on your journey of discovery 

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Estimable Member     Canada, Alberta, Edmonton
Joined: 3 years ago

One of the great things we can do is reach out to others and communicate with others to short things out as we move along our path in life . As you grow and she will be more free then ever before , keep spreading those wings dears .......

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