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(@turkish77)
Active Member     United States of America, Massachusetts, Holyoke
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Everyone

I’m Allie. I’m not out to friends or family. Trying to find my way. Looking forward to making friends.

Does anyone have any tips for a first time outing? Nowhere close to passing. Thought of a bike ride or nature outing. Looking for something where I wouldn’t encounter a lot of people but finally be out in the world and not in my house.

much love to everyone here

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(@michellelarsen1)
Noble Member     United States of America, Virginia, Front Royal
Joined: 5 years ago

Allie, welcome to our neck of the world. I do hope you are getting situated and seeing all there is here. Please let me know if you have any questions. Either I, or someone else, will make sure we reply back. I do so hope you will join us in the Chatroom. I enjoy chatting there a lot. If you look in Social -> Member Directory, you can search for other people that may be near by. Or under Places -> Local Places, you can search for all sorts of things that may be near you. Hope to see you chatting soon. Oh, and don't forget about digging through the Articles and Forums. Loads of information there. Hugs, Michelle

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Hi Allie, thanks for joining us here. I'm a pretty new member myself. People are very welcoming here so you'll have no problems there. I'm in the same situation as you. Not even been outside as my better self yet, hopefully that'll change soon though. Have you ever thought of an early morning walk, it's quiet and calm, not too many people (if any). Speak soon hun 😀

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(@turkish77)
Active Member     United States of America, Massachusetts, Holyoke
Joined: 4 years ago

Thanks so much Michelle!

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(@michellelarsen1)
Noble Member     United States of America, Virginia, Front Royal
Joined: 5 years ago

Allie, I would also encourage you to tell us as much as you can about yourself in your profile. It goes a long way to sparking interaction with other members. Thanks, Michelle

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(@turkish77)
Active Member     United States of America, Massachusetts, Holyoke
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Amelia

Beautiful name. That’s a wonderful idea. Thank you for being so welcoming!

❤️

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(@aundreak)
Active Member     United States of America, Colorado, Denver
Joined: 4 years ago

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I think this is all about what will make you the happiest, don't go to far or you'll hate it and maybe purge.

What worked for me, I set the goal to go out, then I picked a date and bought everything I was missing to make a complete look.  I didn't want to go out alone so I searched for friends. I actually had the best luck on grindr, and found someone willing to help me in the first couple days online. She came over helped me get dressed and then we went out to denver for dinner, then bar hopped the rest of the night. Was way more then I planned but I loved every minute of it. I learned through it that I'm trans and I love it. So go get out there and be you

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(@turkish77)
Active Member     United States of America, Massachusetts, Holyoke
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Aundrea

Sounds like an amazing experience. I only hope to experience something similar. I don’t have any transgender friends here where I live. I hope to make some.

Thanks so much!

❤️

 

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