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New Member     United Kingdom, Buckinghamshire, Milton keynes
Joined: 7 months ago

Good morning everyone 


about me

a 46yr old man who has dressed on and off since I was 12.

have never been able to get into it fully as was busy trying to be the man’s man everyone wanted me to be 

played rugby . Worked insecurity and the fire service 

played around with ladies in and out of my marriage.

been with my wife for 24yrs and have 3 boys 

she is my best friend and has put up with so much from me.


i told her early on that I liked to dress and she was dead against it 

she has caught me out many times over the years, I always told her it wouldn’t happen again.


well yesterday I told her that it won’t go away and would like her support with it 

be it helping me to dress 

letting me go out and find the support or some place to dress 

she didn’t rush off and say no . I have asked her to think about it and give me an answer when she is ready . She did tell me she knew already .

her other response was 

you need to lose weight lol , she’s not wrong I do weigh 22stone and need to lose it for my own day to day health .



well that’s me 

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Active Member     United States of America, California, Los Angeles
Posts: 4

@neilmk  wow. I'm so happy you decided to hold on to the part of you that expresses another side of you. I hope you find support in your wife and in others here and out there. I just came out as nonbinary to my husband and kids and it has been very freeing.

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Honorable Member     United States of America, California
Joined: 6 years ago

Hello Neil,

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