Hi all, I'm Sandra
I pondered for a long time before taking this first step of my journey, if I succeed, toward my, possible and future, transition, because I never had the courage to introduce myself to anyone.
In social life I am, still, officially a man, but deep down I have always felt like a passionate woman.
I started dressing as a woman, always on the sly, at the age of 13 and continue to do so whenever I get the chance, paying close attention to details on clothing, lingerie, high heels, hair/wigs, nails, nail polish, jewelry, makeup, perfume etc.
I joined "Transgender Heaven" to start getting to know so many dear sisters who, with their advice, I am sure will help me on my long, slow path to happiness
a kiss all of you
Sandy 
Welcome Sandra! A lot of us with similar stories and in need of support. Someone to listen as we all have a story. This is my 3rd attempt on this site….no fault of TGH removed link Best wishes for your dreams to come true. 🤗 Brandy
@sandydf Ya know, way back when I was in school, I had a teacher, that told us to stand 3 feet away from the wall. Each day, we are to step one half of the remaining distance to the wall. So each day, we divided what was left from the day before, in half. And you know, we never did get to the wall. But each day, that wall got closer and closer. We will never gain that perfect version of us that we have in our head, but we each subsequent step, we do get ever so close. And feel ever so much better. Hugs
@michellelarsen1
Hi Michelle, My God how true what you say....
I have been taking care of Sandy for about 30 years and I still don't feel as perfect and beautiful as I want to be
Sandy
Hi Sandy.
Welcome here too. TGH is part of the family. A very understanding, friendly and supportive community. As I have said first times make great memories. I hope you enjoy this site. It is a good opportunity to explore inside yourself surrounded by like-minded people. It has helped me a lot too.
Gisela
Sandy
Welcome Sandy. I just got here myself
@brkoday
Hi Dawn, welcome Sister, it is a real pleasure for me to meet you
Kisses
Sandy
Hi and welcome! Your profile pic looks amazing. Enjoy the journey. Hugs Katie 💕
