Hello everyone, I'm a returning newbie, Danielle. I'm AMAB, in my early 40s, and trying to figure out what I need out of my transition. I'm not sure if I'm bigender/genderfluid or a transwoman. What steps should I take for myself to help figure this out? Thanks!
@danielleelizabeth hi im SeverinNadine im a newbie and literally just starting my transition education journey and confirm to myself that my curiosity to be and dress as a female finally at 44yrs old, ive never spoke about this to anyone, but have lived 50/50 TF for the last 3years in private, it seems like the only option is private treatment, as the nhs is minimum 6yr waiting list for appointments,ill be in my 50s before i could be considered for surgery, i wish to start hormone therapy and have bottom surgery as soon as possible, My penis is alien to me ive never been comfortable with it, ive had my children and im mentally ready to go through with the procedure, ive contacted a surgeon and have given me a list of documents i need to provide, psychological referel,and or letter from friend to confirm i have lived as a female for a period of 2yrs or more,Hormone therapy treatment and hospital scans, id be happy to just pay and sign a waiver to agree to surgery, What path did you take?
@severinnadine I've started therapy and come out to my partner. Ordered some clothes to crossdress but haven't done much more than that at the moment, other than educate myself on trans stuff.
@danielleelizabeth slow down just be what or who makes you feel your very best. This is a life no habit and you can be whatever or whoever honey
