Hiya

Welcome to TGH Zach/Zoe!

We have a lot of new people and a lot of experience here. We're here to be that online support circle you may be looking for. Sometimes we get practical and sometimes we just cut up. The cool thing is we are a moderated site to keep in the transgender domain. On behalf of all the member, we hope you enjoy your time with us.

Ambassador Cloe

Hello Zoe,  love the name by the way, it is actually the name of one of the heroines in the book I am slowly writing. 😃  How are things down under?  Ask away all the questions you may have we have a bunch of answers, and even more questions. 😜

Miriya

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Hi Miriya.

Thank you for getting in touch with me. This community feels so supportive already be never experienced anything like it ❤️

Things are interesting down here. Usually our weather knows exactly what’s going on (boiling hot) but now can’t seem to make their mind up. One day it’s really cold and the next insanely hot. But I still love being here.

Would it he be ok to ask some questions? They may sound silly but everything is still very new

How did you realise? Was there a moment of understanding or did it just happen?

This may sound offensive and I’m sorry but. Is it ok for me to be trans? That’s a thought that has been going through my head a lot

I’m very lucky that I have a supportive work environment and my friends have been brilliant. My family not so much. What was it like for you to tell people?

I’ve had disphoria “episodes” I don’t like that word but I couldn’t think of another, in the past but it’s not all the time. Is that “normal”? I don’t like that word either

Sorry if these are dumb questions   Thank you so much and please don’t hesitate to ask anything at all ❤️🙂

Hi Cloe

Thank you for having me. I already feel so accepted and supported   Can’t wait to meet everyone 🙂

Hi Zoe

Tia here welcoming you with open arms. You questions are very welcome and between all of us angels in Heaven, I'm pretty sure you'll receive  answers you'll feel comfortable with. Talk at you in chat...

Huggz  Tia

Welcome Zoe 🙂

Stephanie xo

Hello Zoe, the answers oh the answers.

When did I realize?  It was a very long process as I started having signs when very young, 5 & under when I tried to be just like mommy, and loved it when people used to refer to me as a girl by accident, I was a little cutie.  Or when I first crossdressed around 7-8 in my moms things in secret. Fast forward a bunch of years of self doubt, confusion, and a lot of exploring the whole mess, and I had a sudden understanding, and that was like a light switch, and I knew I was the female traped syndrome.

BTW you can ask any question you want I will answer the best I can. 😃

What was it like to tell people?  Scary as hell, but afterwards it is like a weight that has been crushing me was lifted.

Is it ok for you to be trans?  This is more a question for you, but as for society that is a question that I can not answer.  However I am in the same boat with you.  We have a lot of people rowing for us doing the T-rights movement, however it will be after our time when Transgender people will be accepted as normal everyday folk.

And the last Dysphoria episodes? Girl friend I have them...  Just look at my tiny little butt that I hate and can not wait to stick some fat in there.  And oh do I have VJ envy. 🥰 So for you to have them, I fell sorry for you, but welcome to the club till you do something about it get ready to be plagued by them for some time.

Miriya

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