Hi
Looking for a place where find information and people with transgender experience I found this and i think is great. I am 46. Crosdressing more than 20 years. Atracted to women clothes since I was a child and wearing some bras and similar but 20 years ago I started to wear completely like a woman and going outdoors in public. I do it only where people donΒ΄t recognize me, but still in the closet to my fam, friends, coworkers or anybody in my city. I thought I could have like a 2 different personalities and lifes. But Wearing women clothes won't enough for me. I wanted to be more and more feminine every time. I didnΒ΄t like my imperfections. Arriving to a situation where the only way to "improve" were permanent changes I started to question myself. Questioning this issue I realize it has been affecting my life permanently. So many questions and fear getting me crazy.
Hello Helena, I came to the same realization almost a year ago. I've been married for 40 years and revealed my crossdressing to my wife last July. Then a couple of months after that we realized I also need more and I started HRT in November.
I had started back dressing about this time last year after a several year purge period. I wanted everything to be as close to real as possible, like you. The only advice I could give you is find a good gender therapist if you can, and come out to your immediate family early in the process. You didn't say if you have a wife or SO, but the longer you go in not telling them, the worse it gets for both of you.
Good luck, and I wish you success in your journey!
Hugs,
Brie
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You are not alone I think any of us suffer the same thing I do Iβm in San Diego I try to go out and I get scared I get all dressed and then stay
inside and being a woman takes three
times as long but four times the fun.
Hello Helena,
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Hi, I read this and it reminds me so many ch f myself. I understand what youβve been through. I wish Iβd known 25 years ago that I was actually a woman.
Hi, I read this and it reminds me so many ch f myself. I understand what youβve been through. I wish Iβd known 25 years ago that I was actually a woman. Wouldβve mad things easier. I remember the first time I dressed up all the way as a girl. Iβd played with panties Β and bras my entire life but when I put that dress on I finally felt like myself.
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Hi. Welcome. Hope you find what you're looking for here. Plenty of experience and minds to pick. They've been really helpful and kind to me so far.
So what are you planning or considering to do next to fulfill yourself?
