Is three weeks in too late to say hi?

Hi there, Chloe.   3 weeks isn't at all late, so a huge Oklahoma welcome to you.  It's very good to have you with us.  I think that as you dig in to the site, you're going to meet all kinds of ladies, and guys, in different stages of change from all around the world.  There's lots of experience, wisdom, questions and advice for the taking, so be at home.

Peace and love, and the best of life to you, hon

Carly

Chloe-Anna:

No, it isn’t too late. As time goes on, you will learn that there are many here who are facing, or have faced, the same issues that you mention. It’s just the nature of things.

Decade before last I worked in Taiwan for 6 years. I have in-laws in Australia and my wife and I visited in 2007. They live outside of Canberra and we spent 10 days there. The last full day in country was spent in Sydney. It was Australia Day and everywhere you went it was a big party. I did the walk on the roof of the Sydney Tower. What a bizarre experience! Anyway, I hope being here will be a very good experience for you.

We do have a way that you can search for other members from Australia. Click on Social in the menu. That will reveal a choice called Member Directory. Click on that and it will takes you to the search utility.

Thanks for being very thorough with your Profile page. I often have to remind people to do that, but it is a very good way to allow people to get a sense of you and what’s happening in your life; good and sometimes not so good.

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Chloe, heck you are not too late, you're just on time. Now I was late.

I did not fill mine introduction till almost a year later on Crossdressers Heaven. I have no excuse, I was just lazy, but I finely did it.

I here as a transgender supporter (Best Friend) and I am also Androgynous Crossdresser. Meaning I like wear combination of both genders. Say like one day I feel very girly, out will come the dress, painted nails and my hair done. Then there are times I feel like a tomboy and want the mix of both genders, and sometimes I have no rules and do what ever floats my boat that day.

Now keep in mind I live my life with both genders at the same time, but present myself to the world as a man. I also wear a beard and don't shave my body hair, except my legs, gotta have the super smooth legs.

Also, I am a family man with 9 children and grandkids. I dress openly to the world and in the early stages I had to learn to balance CDing and my life. So I look at how natural-born women dress in the USA and Canada. See they mixed genders of clothing, they figured out how to blend both genders together and did it well. So I just learned by watching real and learning real women.

I don't know if that helps you, but that is what worked for me.

Hippie

Thank you Carly 😊

I hope i can learn from you girls here and hopefully i can also bring some Australian flare to the table for everyone else -giggle-

Hope you are well during this crazy time 😁

Chloe

No problem, Chloe-Anna.  We all move at our own pace.  Welcome to TGH.

Is it funny i saw this reply on Australia Day? haha

Australia is beautiful and full of amazing, friendly people who seem mostly accepting, at least around Brisbane , so lucky 😁

I'm here to hear everyones stories so maybe i can understand life more and start to build mine.

Chloe ❤️

Oh, Hippie, you are so naughty - one year later!  I do love a good questionaire though, and to ah, talk about myself so... any opportunity!!

It seems like you have found a place where you are happy, and thats amazing. I sort of switch between full male or full female in presentation, hence genderfluid, I'll go out partying with friends as a girl yet present mostly male day to day.

I'm speaking with a gender therapist to make more sense of this journey as fem presentation just feels so right and nautral to me, but i love to hear how others work, transition, live...

Chloe ❤️