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New and confused. Gender Identity vs Gender Desire

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(@seraphina)
Trusted Member     Germany, Baden-Württemberg
Joined: 5 years ago

Hey Nikki, nice to see you here.

I'm also in a similar place, or maybe a step or two ahead. Like the others have said already, the choice/finding a compatible therapist is super important; I got super lucky with this as she has helped me explore what/who I am. I’m also lucky that my wife is so far on board, patiently listening, waiting, watching, not pushing me to do anything or nothing. The lockdown was freakin’ stressful for me but then I’ve come out of it pretty certain that I at have to try hrt. Like you I’m not thinking about bottom surgery, but the rest? Hell yes!

hope you’re having a good weekend, or at least not a 💩 one xx

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(@transgenderalan2alana)
Active Member     United Kingdom, London, London
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Nikki

Thanks for sharing this and being so honest and frank. This is the reason why I joined so I can understand other CrossDressers and help me to understand myself. We don't seem to fit in with the rest of society hence we needed our own community. Would you be happy to chat on Zoom instead of texting here. I'd like to show what I look like when I'm dressed up and also it's more real.

Alan

 

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(@emilywouldgo)
Active Member     United States of America, California, Ventura County
Joined: 5 years ago

This is very similar to where I'm at. I want to live as a woman...completely. No more false boobs and tucking. It's just such a major step and I'm struggling to determine if it's worth it and if I'll regret moving forward. I think the answer is counseling. I need to find someone who knows this stuff and talk it through.

Thanks for sharing and being honest. you are not alone!

<3
Emily

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