Hi all,
Wanted to say hi, closeted crossdresser here, my wife knows, she found a few things and pictures, but was not really accepting, so now I mainly dress in private when I get alone time, but have desires to push further.
I was wearing panties most days switching before bed, but it was to hard to keep up with this laundry in secret .
But I can’t seem to fill this hole, looking for tips to be more fem daily while being a male on the outside
Missy
Hi Missy, well first I would suggest taking it very slow with your wife. I made all the mistakes a person could make. Still, we are working things out, though she is not really accepting.
I daily wear women’s undergarments and when at home I am always wearing a padded bra. It took a long time but I now wear panties to bed also. The down side is the loss of physical contact. Our situation is still tenuous, I’m always pushing for more. I would start transitioning tomorrow if I could but am unwilling to destroy our marriage.
So suggestions, sports bras are easily hidden under shirts for starters. I also have some male shirts that are rather feminine. Floral designs and the like. In the end work with her about your desires and hopefully she may come around. Hugs and good luck. Katie
