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(@neilo)
Active Member     United Kingdom, Merseyside, Liverpool
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi all, I'm Neil, yes I know I'm not trans, but before you scream, he shouldn't be here, please let me explain.

I have the most beautiful, sweet, amazing, stunning, wonderful, gorgeous, girlfriend a man could ever ask for.

She only told me the other day of how she's been really feeling.

Since she was 13 she knew she didn't feel right, and now 5 years later she came out to me, so far I'm the only 1 who really knows, she has told a couple of friends, and that's it.

I love her so much, and I'd do anything for her, we know this is going to be a really long road, and I'm going to be holding her hand every step of the way.

Tomorrow we start this incredible journey together, by visiting the doctor to ask for a referral.

It's a big step we take together, and I coundnt be more proud of my girl for telling me.

So can anyone give me any advice on what we can expect to happen?

Thank you for reading xxxx🤗😘

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(@jasmin1661)
Estimable Member     United States of America, California, Needles
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Neil,

Just so I understand you correctly,  your girlfriend is wanting to transition into a male, FTM?

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(@neilo)
Active Member     United Kingdom, Merseyside, Liverpool
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Jasmine.

Apologies if I wasn't clear, transitioning m2f.

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(@jasmin1661)
Estimable Member     United States of America, California, Needles
Joined: 6 years ago

Neil,

I am really happy you are supportive and you are u oing to take this journey together. What else more can you do or be. Just tell her you love her, and not to be scared and if she for some reason decides not to transition, just hold her and say you will always love her for who see is or decides to be. Can you be all that Neil?

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(@neilo)
Active Member     United Kingdom, Merseyside, Liverpool
Joined: 4 years ago

Jasmine,

Thank you for your kind words, I'm so proud of my girl for telling me she wants to transition (M2f), I love her more & more everyday.

I'm never going to leave her, this is a journey we are on together, I'm holding her hand and by her side through all of this, good times & bad, happy times & sad.

My love, hugs, kisses & cuddles are endless, so is my support.

Like you said, even if she changes her mind, (I don't think she will though, she knows what she wants) I will still love her regardless & unconditionally.

We do this together, and I love her so much.

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(@limbo)
Eminent Member     United States of America, Ohio
Joined: 4 years ago

Unconditional love is so beautiful and happy and supportive and secure!  I'm happy to hear of people like you, Neil.  I wish you all peace, love, and happiness in your journey together!

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(@josiepharaoh)
Active Member     United States of America, Oklahoma, Tulsa
Joined: 4 years ago

Oh look! Its a real man!

Treasures are rare in this world, defend her, hold on to her, and treat her like a lady.

Its hard to find men who are secure enough in their identity to take a relationship with a trans woman seriously, and i'm always happy to meet one.  Thanks for being you and supporting her through this.

I wish the both of you the best on your journey.

 

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