I’m 35, married, with 2 gorgeous children. I don’t think I could lose my family. I’ve been reflecting on my past and I have been keeping a journal reflecting on my gender identity. I believe I will come to the conclusion of having to either lose my family or myself. I realize there is no book for the things in life that are difficult but I want to know if there is any literature covering mid to late in life realizations. I find it a little difficult to identify with the younger people who are transitioning/transitioned.
<p style="text-align: left;">Hi Pfifer I understand your situation . I came out and went wild for the second time in my life. The first is when I was 19. Single , cute and fun.. I was thirty five the second time I joined a Private club for crossdressers there were very serious transwoman also they were committed to a full transition. I went shopping almost every day because I could store my cloths at the club. I had wife and two children my wife found out . I am giving you short version of the story. Her concearns were if I was gay. I did not tell her I was a lesbian . I told her no I did not like men. She wanted to know if there was something she should know that would hurt her or the children. I told her I was experimenting with crossdressing. I think it is something i enjoy. . I told her about the club I joined. She visited and had a great time with all the woman. Our sex got more exciting. She would pick outfits for me to wear before bed. It's was fun. What happened to me was I went to psychiatrist for anxiety and depression. I did not tell her the truth about my gender issues. That was a mistake. Seek professional help for your issues be truthful. If you believe you are transwoman them say it do not be shy. Just find out what is bothering you. This is a great place for people who are questioning there gender and people who know their gender is wrong and working on correcting what is wrong. Most important for you share your story read other stories you will find whole lot similar, make some friends. Then make informed intelligent decisions</p>
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Well Pfifer, you already know there are no easy answers to your questions. I myself am on the lose myself path, as me and the wife decided not to lose the family. And it is a toughy of a path if you choose this one. I have doubts every day if I can stay the course. There are lots of girls on her that have gone the other route and you have to ask them if their family life was worth it, it is a rare thing that the family will survive in this day and age, though the odds are getting better as people get less scared of the subject.
Either way you can bounce ideas and thoughts off me and the others in hopes to make a good decision.
Miriya
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