Hi, I'm sorry to hear about your experience. I am also very happy that you have joined our family, there are many people like you here. Listen, you have to pull yourself together right now and cheer yourself up. We all know that this road is difficult and tortuous, and everyone will experience different twists and turns on this road. We must fight this war with all our heart, because if we let up we will be crushed.
We can't rush it, we need to take it one step at a time. If your son doesn't approve of you becoming a transsexual, that's okay. In conventional wisdom, this may indeed be a little hard to accept. All you need to do is become a transgender woman step by step. For example, you can just wear lipstick at first, and when he accepts it, you can get your nails done, and when he accepts it again, you can wear something neutral. Take it slow and let him accept it step by step, if you directly become a woman, he is sure to be difficult to accept. In the process, you also have to reason with him and let him know that this is the life you want. I'm sure you'll get along well in the near future.
In fact, before I became a transgender woman, I also experienced a lot of setbacks. My friends don't understand me. They seem to think I'm a pervert. Because I sometimes secretly wear women's clothes at home, and then they see me when they come to play. I told them what I was thinking, and they started avoiding me. And then we stopped talking. To be honest, their reaction broke my heart, and I was thinking, my friends don't understand me, so will anyone else?
At that time, I could not sleep every night, and I was in a state of confusion and self-abandonment. I also dare not tell my parents about my situation, I am afraid that they will also think I am a monster.
Later, I started looking for people like me on the Internet. It's also how I met my current boyfriend. I signed up for https://apps.apple.com/us/app/transgender-dating-transfun/id1601589816?l=en-u s" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a transgender dating app with the mindset of giving it a try. I wasn't looking for a date, I was just looking for someone to talk to. I told him about my experience, and he felt bad for me. We talked late into the night, and he would sing me to sleep. Slowly I had no trouble falling asleep. We talked for months, and we met. And then we got together. I'm really grateful to my boyfriend for making me feel like I'm worthy of love.
So don't lose heart, we all have a wonderful future. As long as we insist on getting out of the predicament, then the road ahead will certainly be smooth and spacious.
