Heya, I did update this post but I will reply to you. We will have been together for 5 years November. Her surgery was late 2019 so a good 3 years has nearly past since then. She recently purposed to me and I said yes!
Have there been challenge along the way, sure! But never to with our core relationship. So I’m happy to report that yes things can work out.
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Congratulations! That's wonderful, it's good that everything worked out for you both. BTW, don't worry about coming back if you have any questions or anything I'm sure everyone will be happy to help.
I absolutely understand your reasoning completely.