Reply To: Hello, Im Keeva

[Andy M]

I haven’t come out to my wife as yet.  I just don’t know how.  We have been together for 30 years so you think she might understand.  She has read me a few times and asked if I was secretly gay.  I laughed and could honestly say no to her.  She is very opinionated and does not try to understand if we see something about trans people on the TV and discuss it afterwards.  After all we have been through it will be the end of us.  I love her deeply and cannot contemplate losing her.  Something That would probably happen due to her lack of understanding and refusal to see us as anything other than deviants.