It seems to me that you are in the midst of a difficult situation. Damned if you do; damned if you don’t.
You mentioned graduate work in psychology. Are you practicing? Also, are you working with a therapist? As I am sure that you know, when you are dealing with the intersection of various issues, if is difficult to unravel and prioritize then.
By the way, thanks for doing your Profile page. It is really helps others understand how things are going for you. Remember that you can update the page at any time if something changes.
There is no Place,
Like this Place,
Anywhere close to this Place,
So this must be the Place!