Glad that you have found us, by sorry that you find it necessary to lead a double life. Sadly that is the reality for many people. It isn’t a great situation, but it is what needs to happen. Hopefully there will eventually be an end in sight.
This is a place with many wonderful members; many of whom have been, or are, where you are now. It is important for you to know that you are not alone in this process.
So, please take a moment to complete your Profile page. It goes a long way towards helping other members understand you and what’s happening. Also, as new posts are submitted, this thread will eventually wind up at the bottom of the pile. On the other hand, your Profile page will always be readily accessible and you can update it at any point.