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[Mia Story]

i will never forget the couple i met online. they were gay at first and then one evolved toward transgender. the other freaked and mourned the loss of a lover. i suppose they broke up? i also suppose presentation had a lot to do with the friction?  nowadays the edges are not so defined. the lines are blurred a bit. there are more tendencies that black and white decisions. sometimes i find myself entertaining the idea of being gay. but it doesn’t last for long. when i go that direction its mostly sexual in nature and has everything to do with presentation. last night  i listened to a voice tape i made right after i got my fem voice. wow! i thought i would sound a lot more male or gay! nope! that voice was definitely of a woman. there is so much involved with presenting as a woman. i had to learn and unlearn so much. but these days that evolution goes way beyond clothing or voice or looks. i think it always has in a way. surely everyone thought i was gay in high school but me!