I have had no bad responses yet. In the last year I have come out to my wife, son, work colleagues, mother-in-law, friends, sisters, parents – in that order. Everyone has been loving and accepting.
My wife, son and family don’t get the pronouns, but friends and colleagues do, but then we do have in rules in the workplace I guess, so whether they get it, or are just following the rules, who knows, but all good so far.
My wife isn’t keen on some of my clothing, skirts and dresses etc I only wear in the home, and always wear jeans or jeggings when I go out. But then most women do, and I don’t really want t stand out.
Yet I still dress more feminine than my wife, even when out.
The real shock was acceptance from my mother-in-law and my own father, who are both quite right-wing. I was amazed at how well they both accepted me.