Is your therapist experienced in gender issues? That is often a major hurdle as many good therapists don’t have that experience or interest.
It is important to think of this discovery process as a journey. I don’t know what your age is, but if you are in your 30’s or whatever, that’s how long it took to get to this point. Things are not going to be sorted in the next few weeks. Decisions about going forward shouldn’t be rushed. There’s a lot to consider and process. As always, everything that we do has consequences, and that needs to be understood as each step is dealt with.
I encourage you to complete your Profile page. It can be updated at any time. All threads eventually wind up at the bottom of the heap, but the Profile page is always easily accessible. It helps other members understand your situation and what you may be running into that is difficult.
Also, if you would like to search for other members in your area, click on Social and then Member Directory…