I feel for you. My wife is open in saying that if I need to get dressed up and wear make-up and everything that is fine, but she doesn’t think she can be there for that. It is tough to allow Emily to feel any love from my wife, my wife doesn’t even know my female name. Adding children to your relationship doesn’t sound like a great idea to me, yet. I have kids with my wife and I am not hidden to them. But no one has seen me in a wig or a dress. It can definitely feel lonely in a household full of people. I am here for you.