Well, it wasn’t incompetence. It was in the medical records he delivered to the other doctor.
I suspect he made that diagnosis when I was 16-17 and told my parents. I suspect they didn’t want him to tell me because they …were worried how so would react? And, then the moment to tell had passed and he was on to prescribing medicine and checking blood work.
he never mentioned that I would be sterile. I am. My new doctor says everyone with my disorder is sterile. I wish I had known.