I read this early this morning and hours and hours later I’m still digesting it.
What a fantastic and complex question you’ve asked.
Short answer for me, right now at any rate. I had zero positive role models male or female that I could relate to.
Maybe that’s why I became so attached to reading and movies? (I grew up in the late 70’-80’s)
I’m going to give this some more thought though, I’m really intrigued.