Hi Rei ,
It is a question which can really change the dynamics of ones path . I always believe we have a choice even if it hurts our ego . We always have a choice . It is me who chooses to be depressed , fearful of the unknown and shut myself off . I can choose to follow the same path with no results , face whatever else my brain throws at me and follow that rabbit down the hole . Or I can choose to not believe those brain message and move forward with a positive attitude creating peace and love in my life . I rather have love and peace .