July 26, 2021 at 7:18 pm #115641
Haley:
I would posit that the spectrum for either doesn’t change, but how we think about them and where we perceive ourselves to be may move around a bit. As a function of experience and evaluation, we get closer to our true selves over time.
For me, going back in time, 30 years ago I thought I was gay. 4 or 5 years later I concluded that I was actually bisexual. 18 years ago, I thought I was a crossdresser. About 10 years after that I settled into the fact that I am transgender and non-binary. The goal posts didn’t move. I just sorted out where I was between the goal posts…