Good that you could join us!
Thanks for telling your story. I think many trans people have a great fear of what may happen after they transition. While not everyone is looking for a male partner, it does provide a useful data point that things can turn out well.
I have dated a few guys that wanted me to have the GRS and knew they were not worth keeping around.My husband,he knows it is my body and I make the choices.His family is even good to me,they love and accept people in for who they are.