Wow! What a powerful post!! I never held a weapon, but so many times I resigned myself to living with the secret that I would also take to the grave. I determined that if one of us had to be miserable, it would be me and not my wife. But this year, something just clicked inside and I realized that I would never attain complete intimacy with her with this huge anchor pulling me deeper into the abyss. The only way out is with full honesty and vulnerability, to your loved ones but more importantly to yourself!
Thanks for sharing such a stirring message – it’s just what I needed today!