Hi Kayla, we want it so much we expect too much. For me: Breasts more than an inch, but didn’t start until about 4 months. Once they started, they are sore…it hasn’t stopped yet (though it is comforting if a little painful) Body hair…just shave, nothing else is easier really. Buy a 5blade razor or electric. Beard yes, again shave or IPL Laser (at a salon) well both really. It gets rid of the dark hairs eventually…grey and white hairs…nope. They are less noticeable as time passes.
Facial fat alters and feminises, body: you have to do some work there. If you want a nice waist…lose weight. Thighs some yes, down to your biology also.
I get the hatred of body hair…yes I do. Mine grows slower and thinning at 6months.
Libido…it’s going to go, slows at about 2months.