Reply To: Am I really mtf? How do I tell my wife?

[Grace Darling]

Andrea,

I waited too long to tell my SO.  I can’t say it will be easy.  It was horrible to do it and it is horrible to see the pain that the disclosure has caused.  But I remind myself that I have not done this.  It is a feeling I have and, the longer I live, the more I know the real me is female.  It’s not my fault.  It’s not anyone’s fault.  It’s just how it is.

Only you know when the right time is.  But I think, the sooner the better.

Hugs and kisses,

Grace