We all have such a huge variety of circumstances and experiences, I certainly wouldn’t like to presume to have the answer to everyone… I wish I did.
I was fortunate enough to have the opportunity layed out on front of me, and chose to take it, and the outcome could have been very different. I have always been impulsive, but don’t always listen to my ‘gut feelings’, and often regret it. I really believe that we don’t pay enough attention to our subconscious instincts. We know more about ourselves than we realise.
My heart goes out to anyone who is facing this life changing dilemma. You know these people better than any of us, and can judge when is a good time to talk about it.