New York City or New York State? If you are in, or close to, the City, I suggest getting in touch with: https://gaycenter.org/ They should be able to help you navigate the system. If you are somewhere else, I suggest doing a search to find the closest LGBT resources to where you are. One of the few positive things that has resulted from the pandemic is that counseling services, both therapeutic and health care navigation, are often available via ZOOM or other telecommunication software. Distance is less of an issue these days.
I encourage you to complete your Profile page. It helps other members to understand you, and your situation, better. The page will always be readily available and can be updated at any time.
If you want to search for other members in your area, click on Social in the menu and then Member Directory.