You found us. Very Good! I hope that being here will prove useful for your journey.
Interesting thing: you used the term Transvestite in your Profile. For some reason, the term has fallen out of favor here, but I would have to do some research to understand the Why. But, on the other hand, it is often used in the UK. Once again, two countries separated by a common language!
Please complete your Profile page when you have a chance. Threads come and go, but your Profile will always be readily available and can be updated at any time. When completed, it gives a good picture as to what is happening for you.
Also, you can search for other members by clicking on Social in the menu and then Member Directory.