They’re looking for perfection in an imperfect world and yes I’ve actually been approached about being gold star in that community. I’m sitting here wondering what my 32 years of marriage as a pseudo-cis male counted for on that scoresheet.
I’m happy to just be me, warts and all, much less a false goddess. But, I am blessed to be able to deal with issues that do affect me. Completing a master checklist isn’t one of them.