How long did you need to think about it. Its only been a few months since I finally accepted this about myself. My therapist and my wife told me to think about it for a year or 2. Not that I have money for surgery, but even just to be sure I am a trans woman. Its the first time I have lifted the veil of depression beyond just using medication. I feel more confident and brave and actually want to make my life better. I want to work harder to take her to other countries like she wants. I agreed to wait a year, but every day that I pretend I am just gender-fluid or stay as I have been, I remain distressed.
How did you know you needed GRS? And how did you find a good surgeon? And how long did it take to decide to have surgery? I have so many questions.