the reason I wrote that is because my marriage started failing after our immigration. It failed for many reasons outside me being transgender. She never knew the real me existed until 4 dayse before she finally left. I purged all my stuff 4 times to try saving my marriage and it never helped. I came out to her 4 days before she left. Her stuff were already gone to her daughter’s by then so me being me was never a reason for the breakup. It did however seal the locks on the gates behind her. My happiest day ever!!
take care and be safe!