July 7, 2022 at 10:30 am #131949
Hi Katie,
a. decent therapist is worth their weight in gold.
b. go easy on your wife, remember you’ve been figuring all this out over a lifetime, while she’s just been nuked from orbit with your news and any positive movements forward are going to likely make her feel entirely dis-empowered and removed from you, in short be patient and show a little compassion and let her figure things out, maybe point her in the direction of a therapist and some YT videos in regards to being a partner to a transgender person.