Hi Corrinenow, I am a member on both sites. They each have different things to offer. CDH is a bit more “lively” and it’s fun to see new members and coming-out CDs experience the full depth of the “pink fog”. TGH is another level, although there are as many participating CDs here as trans, I think. There may be a bit more practical dialog here, but just jump in and see how you like thw waters!