I didn’t vote since there’s little to go on, at least in my mind.
I love playing the fire breathing dragon in video games. I get totally into it, especially when I lay the flame on my buddies. But that doesn’t mean I want to be a dragon.
So, here’s a little test to try:
Put on your drabbiest, most uninspiring boy clothing on.
Now look in a mirror.
What do you see?
If it’s a man in boring male clothing, they you’ve got your answer.
If it’s something else, then speak to someone like many here rightly suggest.