Yup, get in front of this.
I told my wife everything, and I mean e v e r y t h i n g ! ! (Well, not everything… .)
I agree with everyone. And, it’s just a matter of time others find out, especially if you have a vibrant online and local LGBTQA+ community presence. I got “outed” by a wonderful neighbour recently and she’s totally cool with me. She even suggested we crack open a bottle of wine when the opportunity arises. Maybe not such a good idea… LOL!!
I have found a “happy place” with my wife. Yes, it’s a compromise, but it works for us.
I can breathe, have a laugh or two and live a feminine life!