Events like the one we were at this past Summer can certainly open new views. Whether they are correct for our future, or just exciting due to the overall energy of the event can sometimes be hard to sort out. I know, it took me decades after my first big conference where it was a week of just being me. The excitement at the time sure said in my heart I wanted to be full-time, but I couldn’t admit to myself in my mind that I could/should do it. I’m not saying that for you transition is right, but for me it is. It’s just that no matter the prompting I had ages ago, it took me a while. What helped a lot was looking to myself, and having a good therapist who was experienced and skilled in gender therapy.
I hope the two of you are doing well. Feel free to call or text.