Reply To: HYPOTHETICAL: Would you trade your sex identity with a cis?

[Ray andrew]

I really identity and sympathize with your situation. I, too, am an old geezer (75), happily married, but worried that my gender feelings will upset my marriage. But unlike you, I enjoy the marriage part of being male. At least for the moment, my life is very happy, so I voted ‘no’ on the cis question. In addition, I don’t like the macho, aggressive, power-hungry maleness and prefer the softer, gentler side of my personality.