My experience with the Trans community after 1 year of accepting who I am has been a mix of good, disappointing, and frustrating.
I am frustrated by the lack of support groups or clubs in my area of NJ. I need to drive at least an hour to make physical contact with another.
I really appreciate the fact that I can easily find kindred souls here at TGH. I’ve met one t-woman on here and followed it up with a lunch date. We also have a date for dinner this week.
I am disappointed by the relationships that appear to flourish with multiple exchanged messages that get personal, only to have the relationship wither and die without notice or explanation. A little common courtesy is appropriate – something as simple as “I don’t want to be your friend” or “I don’t want to continue messaging you” goes a long way. That way I will stop wondering about your well-being.