January 20, 2023 at 3:46 am #135093
Same, coming out destroyed my life. My girl left, I lost my company/career, all my family disowned me.
But….
It saved my life. Here I am 15 years later,remarried, new career, and a life worth living.
All I’m saying is look at the long-term impact of these decisions. Sometimes a little short-term pain is required to get where you need to be.